The territory of deception

From early childhood, when we are completely open and naïve, lacking the ability to be critical of what is going on, we begin to be loaded with "different cards. First, our parents and relatives do this, then, continued by strangers, school, the media, friends, society, the institute. Then we go out into real life, and sometimes it turns out that the world is not what we imagined it to be. This is where we encounter the collapse of our illusions. But no matter how painful this process is, don't worry, very quickly we will create a new illusion in that place.
In his perception of the world, people and relationships, a person often substitutes the real for the desirable. Sometimes this substitution becomes so accepted by a person that he himself becomes unable to distinguish it from reality.